10 Nov 2008
I live in Washington, D.C., so almost by default I have many friends who work on BIG issues. Issues like conflict resolution, energy policy, tax reform, and immigration. Important stuff. Issues that give people pause at a dinner party, paving the way for thought provoking, serious conversations. You get the picture.
Recently, I was at dinner party with several folks I did not know and was asked what I worked on. "Connecting children with nature," I replied. "Restoring childhood."
In return, I received lots of polite smiles, and even an, "Oh, that's nice." Frankly, it felt like the equivalent of being patted on the head -- like I was a kid being treated to a night at the grown-ups' table.
A natural born rabble-rouser, I had to counter that: While it is very nice indeed, the state of American childhood is alarming, and is, in fact, a serious issue. I then asked these strong-willed, passionate people if they had taken a look around to see what was going on. Had they really thought about what type of childhood their kids, nieces and nephews, or neighbors were having? Had they noticed that it was rare to see a child outside engaged in play, unless it was on a sports field? Had they thought about the amount of indoor time they were spending, the example they were setting? Had they had the time to notice any of these things?
The answer: No, they had not. Oh, how I love teachable moments! So began a great evening of conversation and debate. We discussed excessive screen time, over-structured schedules, childhood obesity, homework, safe access to green space, and more. What started out with a "pat on the head" turned into a heated discussion, and I am proud to say, quite a few "light bulb" moments. It was also a joyous time filled with sharing stories of our own childhoods and favorite outdoor places. Lots of nodding heads, genuine laughter, and ‘Me too!'s peppered the conversation.
In the end, people were resolved to make time in their lives, and the lives of the children they care for, to go outside and play. To step away from their devices and gadgets for a bit each day. To reconnect on a personal level with their families, friends, and their planet. It was the best dinner party I have been to in ages.
So, while my job focuses on amazing things like wonder, play, fun, and joy, I try never to forget that all of this -- the notion of connecting people with nature and restoring childhood -- is a very serious issue. And one that is well worth fighting for.
| Bethe Almeras is the Senior Manager for Family and Educator Programs for the National Wildlife Federation and Campaign Manager for Green Hour. |
